'The third situation is most likely to be common. Your boyfriend has been neglecting you for months, you know there's no point holding on to the relationship when theres not even a glimpse of hope left. Yet, you refuse to let go. You let your eyes get swollen with eyebags hanging below after multiple nights crying each time you think about him. He on the other hand, doesnt give a shit. He let days passed as weeks and weeks that soon became months and finally, he breaks it to you that he no longer needed you. And what do we do after that? Live a life of misery, shutting out everyone, even your close friends and blaming yourself for everything that happened. Do you know how heartbreaking it is? It is, isnt it? I keep asking myself, why are we doing this to ourselves? Love is a battlefield, you fight for it and if you lose, you get back up on your feet.'

Extracted from a good friends' blog .
Sorry its without your permission , love .

its true , i and jamie had this short talk yesterday .
we're just killing ourselves in the end .
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